Is it appropriate to wear a bolo tie at a wedding?
As the owner of Modern Bolo, I get asked this question constantly:
“Can I wear a bolo tie to a wedding?”
The short answer?
Absolutely—when styled correctly, a bolo tie can look incredibly sharp, elegant, and wedding-appropriate.
In fact, more grooms, groomsmen, and guests are choosing bolo ties today than ever before. Modern fashion is shifting toward individuality, heritage, and meaningful style—three things the bolo tie embodies perfectly.
Below is the complete expert guide to when, how, and why to wear a bolo tie at a wedding.
Are Bolo Ties Appropriate for Weddings?
Yes. Bolo ties can be formal and stylish—when chosen thoughtfully.
While traditional neckties and bowties dominate most weddings, bolo ties hold their own in:
- Southwestern weddings
- Rustic or outdoor ceremonies
- Boho, country, and minimalist themes
- Modern fashion-forward weddings
- Cultural weddings honoring Native American or Western heritage
The bolo tie is officially recognized as formal neckwear in several U.S. states. Arizona, New Mexico, and Texas all designate it as their official state tie.
So if you’re attending a formal event in the Southwest?
A bolo tie is not only appropriate—it’s iconic.
When a Bolo Tie Works Perfectly at a Wedding
✔ If it matches the wedding theme
Western, rustic, desert, ranch, boho, and minimalist weddings pair naturally with bolo ties.
✔ If the couple encourages personal style
Many modern weddings allow guests to show personality through accessories.
✔ If you're part of the wedding party
Grooms and groomsmen often choose matching bolos for a unified look that feels original and meaningful.
✔ If the bolo tie is high quality
A handcrafted or elegant bolo slide elevates the entire outfit.
When a Bolo Tie May Not Be Appropriate
⚠ Black-tie or ultra-formal ballroom weddings
A tux usually calls for a bow tie—unless the couple specifically says otherwise.
⚠ Religious or cultural ceremonies with strict dress traditions
Always follow the family’s expectations and guidelines.
⚠ If the bolo tie clashes with the dress code
For example: beach formal, cocktail attire, or fashion-forward urban venues may favor modern thin ties or bowties instead.
If you’re unsure? Ask the couple or check the invitation—dress codes exist for a reason.